Bridal Gathering

Finding the perfect gown takes careful thought and research to be sure the one you pick flatters you the most and makes YOU feel beautiful.

Bridal experts suggest that before you start searching, you close your eyes and picture yourself on your wedding day. What kind of dress do you see yourself wearing? Is it a frothy full-length creation that makes you look like a princess or is it a more simple style suitable for a more casual type of wedding.

When looking for your wedding gown or dress, keep your shape in mind.

There are basically four categories of wedding dress silhouettes: Sheath, which follows the line of your body; A-line or princess, featuring vertical seams that flow from your shoulders down to a flared skirt; empire, featuring a high waistline which falls to a slimmer skirt and the traditional ballgown with a fitted bodice and waistline leading to a full skirt.

Here is a list of do's and don'ts for each type.

Brides lucky enough to have an hourglass figure (Proportionate chest and hips and a small waist should stay away from ball gowns or empire waist silhouettes. A-line dresses or gowns with dropped waists are most flattering, especially if paired with a sweetheart neckline.

Brides who are short-waisted look best in a princess-line silhouette, which is fitted at the bodice and opens gradually to a full skirt. Halter necklines will show off your shoulders. Stay away from sheaths. They draw attention to short waists.

If your waist is undefined and the line from shoulder to hip is straight, definitely choose an empire-waist gown. It will give you a long, slim look and take attention away from your waistline. Princess-line dresses on the other hand will emphasize your middle.

Full-figured brides with ample hips, butts and tummies will look best in the ball gown or A-line styles. Sheaths make you look heavier as do spaghetti straps.

If you're small on top and heavy on the bottom, a strapless ball gown will cover your bottom and focus on your top. An off-the-shoulder neckline will also be more flattering. Stay away from sheaths or V-shaped necklines.

Brides who are slimmer than most are fortunate: Just about every silhouette will flatter your figure. Ball gown or sheath styles will look the best. Remember if your collarbone is prominent or boney, you should refrain from picking a gown with off-the-shoulder or halter necklines.

The petite bride should seek out a simple style or risk being overwhelmed by a big, elaborate ball gown. Sheath or A-line styles work well.

There is a wealth of choices in material, enhancements and lengths. Whether you have your gown custom-made or find one in a bridal shop, you'll know the right gown once you try it on. Be prepared: Mom will probably cry the first time you step out of the dressing room. Happy hunting!

Timely Tip

Remember that your weight may fluctuate between the time you buy your gown and the day of your wedding, your actual body type will remain the same. So even if you hope to take off that extra 25 pounds before the big day, pick the gown that fits your body type today.